Getting Women – Don’t be Your Own Worst Enemy

OK Guys! Are you ready to put aside some of the excuses that have kept you from meeting women and having a wildly successful dating life? I realize that seems like a stupid question, but believe me – I talk to guys EVERY DAY who would appear to be MORE COMFORTABLE clinging to excuses than really get that girl now!

When it comes to being successful with women: you could be your own worst enemy! It’s true. But since you’re reading this article, I’m going to continue on the premise that you’re ready to truly go from GOOD to GREAT with women…as opposed to simply talking about it. Fair enough?

With that, let’s have an objective discussion of a couple of obstacles that very well could be haunting YOU every single day in your journey to greatness with women. along with a quick solution for making each respective one DISAPPEAR:

1) Not Good Looking Enough

As much as we’re told “looks don’t matter” to women, you’d think we’d get the message. But we don’t. Why is that?

Simply put, we as guys tend to default to an understanding of women’s thought processes as if they were dead similar to our own. As we’ve talked about before, the irony is that we go around thinking like this even as we say “women are impossible to understand”.

Guys tend to “pre-judge” women based on their physical appearance, therefore we assume that women do the same. But women view the world differently.

Bottom line, you can look around you and see guys who would appear to have been hit repeatedly on the head and shoulders with an ugly stick—and they have beautiful, hot women hanging on their arm. And those women adore them.

Overweight? Short? Bald? Same thing.

For sure, do the best with what you’ve got. Women appreciate that. But if you represent the “Big Four” to a woman, you REALLY CAN become the most debonair man she’s ever had the pleasure to behold.

Your core masculinity, confidence, character and ability to inspire her confidence IS flat-out beautiful to her.

2) I Don’t Have The Right Personality

Every person is unique. Like a diamond. This alone means that there can’t possibly be “The Personality Type” that attracts women.

If you think about it, the simple fact that WOMEN are all different means that each one is going to have unique tastes…just like you do. Yet, this doesn’t stop guys from thinking that women ALL want “life of the party” guys if they’re NOT that guy. Meanwhile, I hear from very outgoing guys who firmly believe they need to “tone it down” because women apparently want the “strong silent type”. What gives? Are we ALL the “wrong” type of guy?

Come on, man. That CAN’T be true.

And we ESPECIALLY can’t ALL be “wrong” for ALL women? Whoever you are, you’ll attract the women whose personality type you mesh with. That’s a good thing. So why stand in the way of it?

Stop pretending you need to do a 180 and get what you deserve instead-which is someone you’ll actually get along with. The MORE you fight your natural personality type, the LESS likely that is to happen.

You see, just about every one of us guys think we’re ALL ALONE in dealing with our self-perceived inadequacies. But the truth is that WE ALL tend to battle VERY SIMILAR demons. Can you get your head around that, realize that what you’re “up against” is completely normal, and use that information to RISE ABOVE the adversity?

Your answer to that very question will decide whether or not you’ll have the stones to step up and make success happen with women…or not.